Shallow guys?
I was talking to a really good friend of mine last night. She continuously gets rejected by guys. She is not the smallest person in the world, but her attitude and personality more than makes up for any physical flaws she has, well, in my opinion anyway.
Last night I felt so horrible for her when she said “Ya know, no matter how I try to look at myself and all this rejection…when it all boils down to it, I am just a little girl in this world, who wants a boy to like her.”
I guess I can understand that guys like to have ‘arm-candy’ to show other guys what they can get as far as a woman is concerned. But, I guess I DON’T understand why guys can be so shallow they are willing to pass up good women because she’s not ‘a barbie’ – then complain that good women are hard to find.
Guys, do you have any input to share with us women about this subject?
wolfman – show me differently and I’ll ask different questions.
i think if your friend is worried about men who reject her then that means she just hasn’t found the right one to accept her for who she is.it will happen and then one will look at her and see her heart above it all.in the meantime have confidence and tell her to stop worrying whether you she is as good as others and feel your best for that one that is in search of the same thing.
