How important is a woman’s body?
Ok dudes, here’s the thing. I’m a thicker girl, but I don’t think I’m fat. I have some characteristics I’m proud of (can we say, “junk in the trunk??” I knew you could.), but I don’t look like Kim Kardashian or Heidi Klum with perfect boobs and abs and thighs that don’t touch. When we’re watching TV and these Barbie doll images start flying around everywhere, I can’t help but wonder if my fiance is wishing I worked more at making myself look like that. When you see women on TV, does it ever make you resent how your wife looks? Does TV/porn pollute your mind with images that take away from your lady’s beauty? Or do guys even notice that sort of thing? Is it more like, “It has boobies! Woo-hoo!” and not, “Well, her boobies are not as nice as so-and-so’s.”??
It’s really not that important what the female body looks like, however, I believe that somebody who looks after themselves is, as well as somebody who has brains and can control their mouths.
Don’t be obsessed with how others look as this will only feed your paranoia (the more you feed the monster, the stronger it will get).
Besides, you have no control over what goes through others minds etc., so get out there and enjoy yourself and don’t become a slave to the imagery obsessed society. You need to be stronger than that and I’m sure you’re better than that too.
Start focusing on good, wholesome things like you’re health, studies, job etc. All the REAL important things in life. Good luck.
